It’s the day most of us dread. We’re either alone and can’t stand the roses and chocolate reminders or we’re coupled and can’t stand the pressure.
I think Valentine’s Day represents something we all struggle with. Rejection.
A slight whether professional or personal is a multi-layered sucker punch to the soul. There is, of course, the initial disappointment. There is the underlying recall of past disappointments, which usually stem from childhood. And then, there is the fear of what this rejection means for our future.
In a moment of despair, one rejection can feel like a reminder of our past failures, which could threaten our future happiness.
Yet, it could also be a really downer moment that in the near future could be the best thing.
Years later, it could be the day you changed something for the better and altered the course of your life-in a good way. Although we don’t know the way our lives will unfold, we can control our attitude. Through resilience, we can let the rejection teach us like an old wise friend who’s not afraid of telling us the truth. If we listen after we’ve healed our egos a bit, we might just empower ourselves to turn rejection into victory.
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from World of Psychology https://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2017/02/14/best-of-our-blogs-february-14-2017/
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